“Carli Blau is THE person you need to change your life.”
How Dare You.
How dare you settle for pain instead of pleasure. How dare you stay quiet about what you want. How dare you keep showing up for everyone but yourself.
I'm Dr. Carli Blau — sex therapist, pain-to-pleasure coach, and the voice in your corner telling you it's time.
“She’ll tell you like it is, and you’ll create the life you want.”
You've Waited Long Enough.
Painful sex. A marriage that's stuck. A practice you've been dreaming about building. Whatever brought you here, you already know something has to change.
I'm Dr. Carli Blau, and I help people stop tolerating and start living. No fluff, no shame, no sugarcoating — just the real work that gets you where you want to go. Ready? → Book a Consultation
With a uniquely gentle but direct style, I can help you through 1:1 life coaching, painful sex coaching or deeper more psychologically intimate sex therapy to reframe your experience and help you step into your growth with confidence.
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With a decade of experience in private practice and women’s health related therapy, I decided to build a team of clinicians who are trained by me, and educated and informed about sex therapy and women’s health issues.
My team of clinicians practice therapy the way I believe it should be done — direct, empowering, and tailored to you.
No matter what you’re facing, someone here can help. Meet my team here.
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If other couples therapy hasn’t worked for you, you’re not alone. I cut through the noise, get to the truth, and make sure your relationship — not just your arguments — is my client.
In my office, we don’t rehash the issues you’re having, we get to the root of why you’re having them in the first place and work together to reconnect you and your partner again.
As a certified sex therapist, I specialize in helping individuals and couples navigate intimacy, desire, and sexual health with honesty, compassion, and direct guidance.
I specialize in infertility-related sexual stress, pelvic pain and vaginal pain and vaginal pain disorders, low libido and unmatched sex drives in partnerships.
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As a pain-to-pleasure coach, I help women move beyond the pain, fear, and worry that so often surround intercourse and vaginal discomfort. Unlike sex therapy, coaching dives straight into the practical — teaching you how to work with your body, reconnect with your sensations, and build the skills and confidence to experience real pleasure. My goal is simple: to help you get past the pain and into a sexual life that feels good, safe, and fully yours.
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I coach clients across three connected areas: sexual wellness, entrepreneurship, and life transitions.
I work with individuals and couples who want to explore their sexual needs, deepen intimacy, and understand themselves more fully in a space that's affirming and judgment-free.
I also coach entrepreneurs and private practice owners, drawing on my own experience building a business to help them clarify their vision, strengthen their systems, and lead sustainably.
And for clients navigating broader life challenges, I offer grounded support to move through change, work through what feels stuck, and reconnect with what matters most.
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As the founder of a group practice, I help clinicians turn the dream of private practice into a brand and business that truly reflects who they are.
From brand development and website design to social media strategy, I fine-tune your image, sharpen your message, and build the foundation you need to grow with clarity and confidence.
Ready to build a practice that feels like you? Let's talk.