Dr. Carli Blau
Understanding why we know better—and still don’t do better.
Psychotherapist. Sex Therapist. Educator. Speaker. Founder of The Blau Methodâ„¢.
Dr. Carli Blau explores the psychology of human behavior—why insight alone rarely creates change, why we repeat patterns we understand, and what actually helps people behave differently.
Insight is not the same thing as change.
We can know why we choose the wrong partner and choose them again.
Know we need a boundary and still fail to set one.
Know resentment is destroying our relationship and continue behaving in ways that deepen it.
Know what we want—and remain unable to act on it.
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For more than a decade, Dr. Carli Blau has studied what happens in the space between knowing and doing.
That work became The Blau Methodâ„¢: an approach to understanding the patterns that keep people stuck and turning awareness into meaningful behavioral change.
A more intentional way to understand yourself, your relationships and your behavior.
- IndividualsTherapy & Coaching
- CouplesRelationship Support
- CliniciansConsultation & Education
- AudiencesSpeaking & Workshops
Ways to Work With Dr. Carli
Whether you're seeking private clinical work, professional consultation, education or community, there are several ways to work with Dr. Carli.
Therapy
Private psychotherapy with Dr. Carli Blau.
- Individual Therapy Session
- $400
- Couples Therapy Session
- $500
Dr. Blau is Founder and Clinical Director of Boutique Psychotherapy, a private-pay psychotherapy practice with clinicians trained in her clinical approach.
Work With Dr. CarliClinical Consulting
The Clinician Collective
For clinicians who want to think more deeply about the work.
A professional learning and consultation community led by Dr. Carli Blau, focused on sexuality, relationships, complex cases, clinical conceptualization and the application of The Blau Method.
Explore the Clinician CollectiveCoaching
The Blau Method Collective
Where insight becomes action.
A learning and coaching community for people who want to understand themselves differently—and actually do something with what they learn.
The next cohort is coming.
Join the waitlist to be the first to know when enrollment reopens.
Dr. Carli Blau, PhD, MEd, LCSW
Conversations that change
how people understand themselves.
Dr. Carli Blau is a psychotherapist, sex therapist, educator, and founder of The Blau Method™. She speaks about sexuality, relationships, human behavior, emotional regulation, desire, identity and the patterns people repeat—even when they know better.
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